| There's
an old joke about this part of the creation narrative.
It seems that God and Adam were discussing various
help mates. God told Adam that he could design his
mate in any way he chose, but there would be a cost.
Adam said he wanted someone who would cook for him,
clean for him, support him financially, always be
passionate and submissive. God said that all that
was possible, "However" God said, "that
will cost you an arm and a leg." Adam thought
about it for a while and then asked, "What
can I get for a rib?"
All jokes aside, this part of Genesis has been
used for centuries to relegate women to a second
class position in society. I heard a biblical
scholar say that until the last couple of centuries,
women were seen as unfinished men, Somewhere in
the womb, a baby would stop developing and those
things that would make one male didn't develop.
Genesis adds a lot to that argument. It was only
after a male was made did the idea of a woman
ever come up. Now, that's true for this, the second
creation story. The first creation story has God
making humankind in his own image, male and female.
However, this hermaphroditic nature of God isn't
developed any further.
If we go further into the creation narratives,
we get to the most famous parts of the Old Testament
- the Garden of Eden. Now, we all know that because
women are weak and easily swayed, Eve ate the
bad fruit and compelled Adam to eat it as well.
Adam must have been under Eve's seductive spell
for him to do something so disobedient to God.
It's all women's fault. Snakes have to crawl.
Man has to work for food and shelter and child-birth
would hurt, really, really bad. Thanks a lot,
Eve.
When Lot and his family left Sodom, it was Lot's
wife that looked back and was turned into salt.
And, in Sodom, Lot's host refused to allow the
mob to rape Lot and sent his daughter out instead.
See, girls just aren't as important men.
In the Mediterranean basin even up to fairly
recent days, women were property, not really different
than sheep or furniture. Men would barter with
the father for the hand of the daughter. Arranged
marriages are still the norm in some parts of
the world.
By the time of Jesus, Jews were monogamous in
that men only had one wife at a time. I don't
know when that changed. Abraham, Isaac and many
others in the Old Testament had multiple wives,
or concubines sometimes picked by the wife.
Polygamy is still practiced in parts of Africa
and even in parts of Utah. The news has been filled
with articles on the cult figure in a split off
of the Mormon faith.
Arranged marriage, polygamy and the like are
not about women, they are about man and his power
and control.
Divorce, in Jesus day, seems to have been solely
a man's decision. Again, it's hard to know about
first century Palestine's customs. Apparently,
a man could divorce his wife at will. I would
suppose that this was held over a woman's head
if she displeased her husband. But what would
become of the woman? She would be an outcast,
like lepers, tax collectors and prostitutes, which
is about the only job a divorced woman could do.
So, Jesus turned this back on the religious elite
and said that God joins a man and woman and humans
cannot simply destroy the bond God has made. In
that society, the woman always suffered in a dovorce.
I think that was a strong motivation on the part
of Jesus.
Throughout the Gospels, Jesus takes on the Pharisees'
interpretation of law. Remakes it to reflect God's
incredible justice.
In this same reading, today, Jesus comes to the
defense of children. Another invisible and voiceless
part of society. Children were to be blessed.
Their innocence to be honored and copied.
Golly, first women and now children. Next thing
you know, Jesus will be eating with tax collectors.
Oh wait, too late. Jesus did that, too.
It seems that wherever he went, he disrupted
the conventional wisdom. He offered alternatives
to the stale tradition that rewarded male privilege
and kept women, children and certain professions
in a perpetual under-class.
It's even more the pity that for 2 millinium
the Church has done the very thing its Lord and
Master tried to expunge from both society and
religion. Even in our beloved Episcopal Church,
it wasn't until 1967 that women could be voting
deputies at General Convention. And, of course,
women have been ordained to the priesthood since
1976. As you know, the Presiding Bishop elect
of the Episcopal Church is Katherine Jefferts
Schori.
But this sermon isn't about women's rights. It's
about how we treat each other. It's about how
we live into the society's stereotypes of how
we are supposed to act. In a society where women
and children where chattel property divorce was
tantamount to putting the woman and probably her
children, at least her female children, on an
ice flow.
Where is power and privilege seated today? Who
are the powerless in society? And, do we value
them as children of God, or as so much property?
It may be hard to believe, but there is an active
slave trade right here in River city. Men and
women, boys and girls who are sold to be field
workers and more often for the women, sex slaves.
These are people kidnapped in places like Guatemala
and Honduras and smuggled here in inhuman conditions.
Some are people that paid a smuggler to bring
them into the US. However, the smuggler, called
a coyote, allows them to pay on credit. The debt
they roll up is impossible to be paid, so it is
taken out in trade. The debt never goes down and
the people trying to escape economic hardship
find them selves slaves unable to go to the police
for fear of their owner.
There are more subtle forms of dehumanization.
So called victim-less crimes like pornography.
What does it say about women that we reduce them
down to breasts and sex acts? And that doesn't
even touch the child pornography market. So much
meat sold to a despicable sub strata of human
being. Body image. Girls learn from an early age
that skinny everywhere except on their chest is
a good thing. Look at all the new cases of anorexia
and bulimia among the people our children consider
role models.
We don't have to look far to find dehumanization.
The Abu Graive scandal happened because the inmates
were seen as less human, less worthy of compassion
than their American captors. A congressman making
congressional pages into objects of lust. The
Nigerian Arch-bishop, as I mentioned last week,
that referred to the Episcopal Church, you and
me, as cancers on the Anglican Communion that
must be excised.
Jesus told the Pharisees that God allowed their
type of divorce because of their hardness of heart.
How hardened are our hearts when it comes to those
who are different than us? Who do we write off
regardless of what our actions do to the other?
I met a young man recently who actually believed
that he owed society absolutely nothing. He had
no moral obligation to those in need. He saw everyone
as being other. He actually had no real morals.
It was all about what he could get for himself.
It was very sad.
His mother raised him by herself; a victim of
being regarded as nothing worth support or respect.
And now, there is another amoral, self-centered,
angry young man on the streets.
We as a society have written he and his mother
a bill of divorce and have left them to take care
of their own needs with out the skills or sense
of community that they so desperately need.
Jesus wouldn't write them off. He does not divorce
anyone. Paul says that the closest image of Christ's
love for his church is the love of a man and wife.
Divorce distorts that image. Christ's love for
the Church, meaning all of us, is indelible. He
cannot divorce us. He won't divorce us.
We are imperfect people living in an imperfect
world. People get divorced, legally and figuratively,
every day. Our hearts are hard, cynical. Jesus
sets the standard. By loving the Church throughout
all of its infidelity, he tells us that even in
the midst of our human frailty, no one dissevers
to be written off as less than human.
God humbled himself to come to us in human form,
to live and die with us. If we divorce the poor,
the outcast, the strange, we, in essence, divorce
Christ. And that he will not allow. Jesus, the
bride-groom, loves us in spite of our imperfection.
And if won't write off the people who killed him,
who are we to write off anyone?
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